Friday, July 16, 2004

Time

It such a big cliche to say time heals. What's that suppose to mean? The pain and hurt will just go away, with time? Do we sit around and let the pain fade? Does that ever work? I doubt time actually heals, the scars are permanently imprinted in our consciousness or sub-conscious. I think its just that we get busy getting on with our lives and find substitutes to make us feel good. And there's nothing like having your heart broken or trampled upon by someone you care for dearly. How does that pain ever go away? Mine pain still hurts. How about yours?

2 Comments:

At July 17, 2004 7:48 pm, Blogger n1kki said...

hey, this is abby here from AEIJ.. nice blog :)

anyway, as cliche as it may sound, it's true that time heals wounds. i've been wounded on many an occasion (not necessarily by bfs), but as hours turn into days, days into months, and months into years, you're bound to feel better about it. this is of course, speaking purely from experience, both personal and through observations.

" I think its just that we get busy getting on with our lives and find substitutes to make us feel good"

i don't know, but i think being busy is a constant, nothing to do with how we feel at all. and as for substitutes, if you're talking about inanimate objects, perhaps, but if you're talking about a living thing, and esp another human being, there can't be a substitute, because no two living thing is ever the same, and it'd be unfair to think of the next person that comes along as a substitute. i prefer to think of it as a new chapter, after the old one closes.

mine doesn't hurt anymore. once in a while, i think about it upset myself in the process sometimes, but i always believe that one should move forward. history is history... i know, easier said than done, but take your time, i'm sure you'll manage too ;)

 
At July 18, 2004 9:32 pm, Blogger Resurrected said...

Hi abby. Thanks for dropping by :)

Yup, I do agree with you :P I was just feeling really 'out' when I posted that. As practical as I may be, with that icy cold exterior, I still can feel it.

Thats why I started blogging :P Its my therapy

I'm actually at possibly my lowest ebb at the moment. Its a culmination of many many crossroads, for which many I still can't decide on. Taking steps to get back on my feet again.

 

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